Arsenal Circular 160 – Count Your Blessings

Reflecting on the tragedy in Colombia yesterday



Arsenal Circular 160 – Count Your Blessings


Quite a few topical comments but let me remind you all of how we felt on 6 February 1958 when we learned of the Munich Air Crash. I mention this because for football people all over the world, they will have read with mounting anguish of the reports coming through of that plane carrying a top Brazilian football team that has crashed into a mountain with few survivors. The film of the players shows them in their dressing room joyously celebrating a win – back slapping, singing, hugging – just happy, happy, happy. And now nothing – a desolate silence. Laughter gone. Life extinguished.

The UK was so affected by the Man U crash. It hurt us all and as many of you know just days before the crash United team including a half back line up of Coleman, Jones and Edwards – all three perished – had beaten AFC 5-4 in one of the most remembered Highbury matches of all time.

Football is about so many things but young players, together, happy enjoying their youth, their fitness, their football and then at a stroke the lights go out. Sometimes these tragedies need to remind us how lucky we are to enjoy ourselves following our favourite team. We are all in it together – clubs, players, fans, families. It is society – it is community. It includes the programme sellers, the food providers, the railway staff, the hats & scarves sellers., the tube staff, the policemen/women, the stewards. Such a reach. Football is unique. It gives us such joy, such excitement, such disappointment, such frustration. Put all of that to one side and think now about today in Brazil and the parents, the brothers, the sisters, the children and the communities that will be so devastated by the news of the crash. Their school teachers, their Sunday school leaders, the doctors and sports support staff, the media, the shops, the restaurants, the bars – towns and villages all around. It touches everyone.

I had intended to write about the Premier League, our form, our hopes for top place, Santi’s injury, uncertainty at right back, Andy Carroll, Pulis and his character destruction by a senior Judge and the rest – Chelsea’s incredible revival, the current setbacks of THFC and Man U and the hope that one day we will all be rid of Mourinho when he seeks work overseas but it is disrespectful at the moment. The mountains of Columbia are just around the corner. Tragedy and pain and death dominates the headlines

It reminds me of a true life incident. A few years back I had become friendly with a Rabbi. He had followed soccer without knowing too much about the game and he came with me to an FA Cup match at Highbury against Leeds Utd. George was in charge at Leeds and he won the match. On the car journey to the ground we heard – but paid little attention to - a newsflash about an air crash and turned off the radio. We talked and talked and at the end of the evening I dropped him off and made my way home – to bed and to sleep.

The next morning I learned that the air crash was a collision between two helicopters carrying Israeli soldiers. All died including one English boy whose parents lived in the area covered by the Rabbi. I learned that he had immediately gone to the home of the parents to comfort them and left them to return home at 4.30 am. He climbed into bed and quickly drifted to sleep – but only to be awakened by a young son. The Rabbi was initially irritated and told the child sharply to go back to his bed and then remembering the events of the night he reached out to his son and pulled him into his bed, gave him a hug and slept. He developed a well known sermon, “Count Your Blessings’

And on occasions like this we should all count our blessings. Cherish what we have; curb the sharp retort; offer love and affection instead of rancour and bitterness. Too often we only know what we have lost when it is gone – no goodbyes, no final hugs. There and then gone. And this is how so many family members will feel this morning.

I don’t know the team or the Club or the players or the matches though the media will fill the gap with facts during today. Football is played all round the world and no one can expect to know the fortunes of teams in any country apart from your own. And yet none of this matters. Today tragedy and pain is heaped on the relatives of the players and officials of that team. So many parents and so many children will be stumbling around in a mental desert – a barren landscape of nothing as they struggle to adapt to the news. It’s not the day to worry about Cazorla or West Ham or the title chase.

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  1. Guy in Jersey

    Dec 02, 2016, 0:18 #95219

    I am no Christian, but I despise the comments of Arseneknew best, what a f*cking wanker. All Mathew, the first guy to post, was doing was to offer his thoughts and prayers to the families of the loved ones - and that should include everyone, not just those associated with Chapacoense. To turn this into an anti-religious dig is bloody pathetic and shames the ignorant twat who makes such a comment.

  2. mbg

    Dec 01, 2016, 22:09 #95214

    Do you really think we care what you were originally going to wright about, there you are with your self importance again, no doubt we're going to have to suffer it at a later date instead, and no doubt it will be the usual AKB drivel and treated as such. wenger out.

  3. Bonzo

    Dec 01, 2016, 14:35 #95200

    Jamee I know you were watching your Christian Porn network last night so you missed the result. We were crap

  4. mbg

    Dec 01, 2016, 1:13 #95170

    And obviously you can't be talking about or referring to Arsenal fans when you mention enjoying ourselves following our favourite team, and it giving us such enjoyment and excitement, this old past it manager and his Arsenal team haven't done or been doing that for years, and not likely to as long as he remains in charge.

  5. mbg

    Dec 01, 2016, 0:44 #95169

    EborGooner, IT MUST BE doesn't come into it mate, it doesn't figure at all, it's definite, there's no doubt about it, IT IS, fans have been saying it for years and years season after season it doesn't/wouldn't matter who wenger has at his disposal it will/would be or make no difference it would be the same outcome, he can't motivate, he can't teach, he can't do tactics, he can't coach, he hasn't it in him, and a lot will argue he never had, and with the evidence of the last eleven years and all the embarrassments and humiliations etc, that has went with them who can argue. wenger out.

  6. EborGooner

    Nov 30, 2016, 23:49 #95168

    Look at the line ups. Honestly, man to man, which Southampton players would you pick ahead of the Arsenal ones? I've been generous to Saints, and said Foster in front of Martinez, Van Dijk (Gabriel), Bertrand (Gibbs) and Long (Iwobi). That's still only 4 out of 11. So it must be down to Management, tactics, performance and pride - most of that is the Managers responsibility, although the players need to take a long, hard look at themselves. Perhaps it's difficult when your Manager doesn't just accept complacency but positively embraces it!

  7. Paul Ward

    Nov 30, 2016, 22:10 #95166

    Wow, that was as spineless and hopeless as it gets. Forget how many changes we made, Southampton made only two fewer. Ramsey, Iwobi , Gibbs, Coquelin and most of all Wenger hang your wretched heads in shame - pathetic. Oh, and we managed to pick up an injury despite not winning a tackle all night . You couldn't make it up. Big Andy n Payet to ruin us on Saturday anyone?

  8. mbg

    Nov 30, 2016, 22:09 #95165

    Fooking shambles the whole fooking lot of them, wenger out.

  9. Arseneknewbest

    Nov 30, 2016, 21:57 #95164

    Weng pretends to trudge disconsolately back to the changing rooms tonight safe in the knowledge that he has achieved one of his four aims for the season, i.e. the spineless, ignominious crash out of a knock-out cup. The players cry crocodile tears while mentally planning their next tattoo, beard design or colour of their Sergio Tacchini xmas jumper. Scumpton players cannot believe that the shower they have just beaten get paid three times as much as they do. The fans head off to delays at Arsenal station, several quid lighter and with a strong sense of injustice. Meanwhile wengo makes it back to the changing room; undoes the zip after ten minutes; wipes his nose and pulls merkin wearing punxatawney phil out from his cage underneath his desk. "Pheeeel, pheeel I deed it again - tu es content n'est-ce pas? The equally geriatric moth-eaten groundhog replies, "Not until you have rubbed me all over in that seductive way of yours my dear chihuahua". The former football manager smiles to himself - his luck is in tonight because Phil is happy...cor blimey - those antibiotics go really well with scrumpy don't they. A sinking ship of W*nkers - wengo out now.

  10. mbg

    Nov 30, 2016, 20:58 #95163

    jj, Exeter, yes, high and mighty old Circulars at it again with his preaching routine, it was the first thing I noticed, he just can't help himself can he ? even with a tragedy like this, and he probably sits there wondering why he's answered by a lot of posters in the way he is, or probably not, he certainly likes to hear himself talk, if I was being cynical i'd think there was a reason for this stray off his usual bilge, is there news/info about his messiah that needs to be buried or attention diverted, as I've said, it's a tragedy and not one we needed told or reminded about (or preached to about) and/but it changes nothing ( tragedy's as bad as they are rarely do) it's still wenger out.

  11. Mark from Aylesbury

    Nov 30, 2016, 20:45 #95162

    Terrible event and so sad for every one involved. Probably would have been better if Kevin would have said a few words.

  12. CORNISH GOONER

    Nov 30, 2016, 19:46 #95161

    EG - very well expressed, saves me the bother of responding to yet another piece of sanctimonious humbug. It's like an alternative universe out there at times isn't it?

  13. Exeter Gunner

    Nov 30, 2016, 18:49 #95160

    The tone of this piece doesn't half grate. It presumes to speak for us all, it tells us how to think and feel in the face of this tragedy... it talks of football with a kind of 1950s nostalgic rosy glow. We are not 'all in this together' anymore. Modern top level football clubs are distant corporations, their elite employees distant figures we are not permitted near. They are a business, you are a customer. This is football's tragedy in a world of tragedies and horrible trends. Some of the vast wealth generated by the modern football business should be directed to helping in the aftermath as much as possible. Anyone with any kind of platform should be calling for this. We don't need delusional witterings by self-appointed vicars of football.

  14. mbg

    Nov 30, 2016, 17:52 #95159

    ArseneKnewBest, your right there mate, George can be forgiven a lot, (and has) a hell of a lot more than wenger can will be saying the same about TOF in 15 - 20 years time.

  15. jjetplane

    Nov 30, 2016, 17:07 #95158

    Terrible tragedy in Brazil and when we speak of having a humble compassion/empathy with all involved we do not need more preaching from the circular pulpit. You say you don't want to talk of anything else and you instruct us to do the same and here you are spouting hatred at a football manager wishing on behalf of all of us that he were no longer here. Cannot fathom your problem with JM who is just another football manager whom we might concede has been more successful than your Lord and Master. Do not need you telling me how I should feel with your sweeping cliches on football which sound like Roy of the Rovers meets the local Scout Troop. Am quite sure if Kevin had written something it would have been a more sensitive, heartfelt piece. Hardly respectful tagging the tragedy as another one of your legendary circulars. Peace and love to all at Chapecoense FC. You forgot to even mention their name.

  16. Arseneknewbest

    Nov 30, 2016, 16:57 #95157

    Dedicated to GG: "Happy birthday to you - you managed us too - you did a better job than wengo - and that will always be true". I can picture Stroller at home right now blowing out a candle stuck in a bowl of porridge a eyeing up a pint of heavy. Come back George - you're forgiven for Pal Lydersen! (but not Glenn Helder)

  17. mbg

    Nov 30, 2016, 14:38 #95155

    Lets brighten things up with a Happy Birthday to George Graham.

  18. mbg

    Nov 30, 2016, 14:10 #95154

    It was a sad day indeed and watched the clip of them celebrating the copa sudamericana final in the dressing room 5 days ago, it brings an old past it egoistic arrogant manager like wenger into perspective.

  19. Ron

    Nov 30, 2016, 13:53 #95153

    I tend to the view that ringing the changes and trying young players in the League Cup is generally ok and that we just have to accept that the LC isnt ever going to be given top status in a Clubs planning. the lower level clubs have been experimenting in it for years too so its isnt something that limited to those at the very top. Theres no proper reserve team football and hasn't been for years so players on the periphery need a competitive run out here and there. Training alone doesn't do it on its own. Better fringe players going for it rather than so called established first teamers going through the motions and robbing the fans blind. We know whats coming when attending these LC ties. The FAC isnt so different either is it. Thank UEFA for this farce, TV companies etc. The last LC tie i ever saw, real or on TV was the 2011 Final. Awful day. Another nail in the coffin of what was once the great institution of Arsenal Football Club. R.I P to those victims of the crash.

  20. Arseneknewbest

    Nov 30, 2016, 11:21 #95152

    Nick - Could not agree more about tonight. But out former manager has already gone on record saying that there will be widescale changes to tonight's team a la Forest and Reading. The only possible upside is that our opponents might do the same considering that they are also still in Europe. GS - really good point about rich clubs around the world making a contribution if needed.

  21. johnnyhawleyloovinggooner

    Nov 30, 2016, 10:56 #95151

    I went to a Christian schooling system and where taught count your blessings means stop feeling sorry for your self,there are people with real problems, stop being envious, see the positive and just get on with it. and before you attack me for being a Christian, in a court of law I doubt there would be enough evidence to convict me.

  22. Nick

    Nov 30, 2016, 10:31 #95150

    No words will make a difference to those who lost loved ones on a Colombian hillside so I'll simply say R.I.P. . As for football matters that tragedy puts things into perspective it IS only a game ! I would like to see us take a competion that we are in the latter stakes of and where a win tonight would see us have two bites at the cherry of a Wembley final and a chance to lift tbe first silverware of the season more seriously than we do ! After all its not as if we have too much chance or nailed on opportunitys to win the major trophies and who knows lifting a cup may be the catalyst for more success, others have used the league cup in that way before!

  23. GS

    Nov 30, 2016, 10:30 #95149

    Very sad news, and condolences to all involved. There is so much terrible news nowadays ( Syria etc) that some of us look to football to give us a distraction. But at the end of the day, nothing is more important than human life, and for all those families to lose a loved one in that way must be tragic. If financial help is needed, this is where the worlds richest clubs should help, not just by a 1 min silence, they have more than enough to help the team and the community rebuild after this terrible tragedy.

  24. Kinja SK

    Nov 30, 2016, 10:22 #95148

    Interesting how we tend to retreat into 'at least it wasn't me' which is what 'count your bleesings' really means. How that helps to alleviate the pain of loss to the affected is beyond me. What we need is tangible intervention not comparative analysis and/or prayers.

  25. Bard

    Nov 30, 2016, 10:13 #95147

    A sad day indeed but one of many in the world. Always best to stay clear of politics and religion on a football site if possible. Football is a magnificent irrelevance unless you support Untold !!

  26. Arseneknewbest

    Nov 30, 2016, 8:42 #95146

    Mathew - Inappropriate for us to have a lengthy spat on this given the context, but there is a clear christian undertone to your message which does not resonate with me nor other non-christian gooners I would suggest. At least I'm tolerant enough to suggest a meaningful way to help the poor people and their families caught up in this tragedy, rather than just meaningless platitudes about being blessed (which sound terribly solipsistic and unconnected from what happened to those Brazilian players). So whose ego are we really talking about here?

  27. Mathew

    Nov 30, 2016, 8:33 #95145

    That was a terrible reply to my comment, as it was without any religious halo to it. For me, stay blessed means to continue to have good things in life and you wish that to everyone, whatever faith they practice or preach. Your ego seems to be hurt my friend, tolerance is what you need and I dont wish to comment on this thread any further.

  28. Arseneknewbest

    Nov 30, 2016, 8:26 #95144

    What happened to Chapecoense players and club officials in Colombia yesterday is clearly terrible, but we don't need to "stay blessed" thank you Mathew. Not everyone reaches for religious voodoo when something like that happens and it's not welcome for you to assume that we've all been "made holy", I guess in a Christian sense, which is what "being blessed" actually means. There's already someone on here willing to be daft about christianity who I hope will keep his fatuous attitude out of this exchange. Probably more relevant is to continue to follow the story and to see what if anything is being done financially for the players's families, not least because south American clubs tend not to be the best when looking after their staff. Moreover, Brazil is having dire economic problems so think about adding to crowd-funding if it looks like they're going to be left high and dry. A very sad event.

  29. Mathew

    Nov 30, 2016, 6:16 #95143

    Thanks Graham, our prayers are with their families. Such is the busy world these days that we dont have time and patience to Count on our Blessings. These events reminds us to do good to everyone and live the moment...Stay Blessed Everyone.