On the Outside Looking In

Specifically, not being present at the recent North London derby



On the Outside Looking In


The date: Sunday 1 September 2013. To borrow the words of Charles Dickens, it was the best of times, it was the worst of times. On that day we beat that free-spending lot from up the road 1 – 0; it was the best of times. But I wasn’t there; it was the worst of times.

I became a season ticket holder way back in another era – 1969 to be exact. Neil Armstrong had just taken his first steps on the moon, Harold Wilson was prime minister and a quick search on the internet informs me that the average house price in Britain was £4640 and a gallon of petrol retailed for 31p. My season ticket – bought for me by my Dad – cost just over £19. It was indeed another era.

Since that time I’ve been at every single home game we’ve played against Tottenham, or, as Jon Spurling revealed in his excellent book ‘Rebels for the Cause’, should I say the ‘Marsh-dwellers’, as Arsenal fans used to call them in the early days. That equates to 43 league games in 44 years; we must never forget that Tottenham finished bottom of the old First Division and were relegated at the end of the 1976/77 season to spend a year in Division Two. But now my personal unbroken run is at an end. In June 2013 when the time came to pay up another £1200 to renew my season ticket I had a big decision to make. I’d known the day was coming since I’d made a life-changing decision six months earlier. I’d sold my London flat – my home for 31 years - and moved to the country. This had financial implications – and travel ones too. And now that football clubs’ fixture lists are not their own anymore, the vagaries of kick off times also had an impact – a 7.45pm kick off means getting home at 00.45 in the morning! But I should also mention the crushing effect our performances in the first half of last season had had on me too.

And so I took that decision – on 1 June 2013 I said ‘no’, bringing the curtain down on 44 years of attending every home game – a journey that had seen me grow from boyhood to middle age. And now it is over. But it didn’t seem like it at first – it was the summer after all, and let’s face it, the club wasn’t setting the transfer market alight (at the time!) to make me think of what I would be missing.

As a reaction to the enormity of my decision (well it seemed like that to me) I felt the need to make a statement in some way. I wanted the club to know, to understand what it had meant to me over the years and perhaps to help them appreciate that with high ticket prices many more long-term fans will be forced to drop by the wayside in coming years. In 2012 I wrote a book, ‘Arsenal: The Agony & The Ecstasy, a book detailing my personal perspective on almost half a century of following the team. I think I probably realised when I was writing it that the end of my time as a regular attendee was drawing near. I bared my soul in the book and recounted the gloriously giddy ups and the despairingly dark downs that are part and parcel of following this football club. I felt better for writing it.

When I made the decision not to renew my season ticket I decided to send copies of the book to the Club with a brief letter explaining that I was now about to bring to a close 44 years of season ticket ownership. I sent copies to Arsène Wenger, Ivan Gazidis and the editor of the Arsenal Magazine. What did I expect in response? Well, I thought it would be nice if they read the book, but realistically I doubted that they would. I presumed though that I would at the least receive a brief note thanking me for the book and my loyal support over all those years. What did I actually get? Nothing. Zilch. Zero. It confirmed for me something we have all began to realise: the club does not particularly value the ordinary long-term fan anymore.

And so, as the summer dragged on, I became a ‘Red’ member, determined to still come to games, but on my terms – that means Saturday 3.00pm kick-offs; I am a traditionalist at heart. From having taken it for granted for all those years that I’d have a seat at every game, now the first cold winds of reality began to chill my bones. Once Sky and BT had picked over the carcass of our fixture list there were just three discarded crumbs for me to scramble for this side of Christmas: Aston Villa, Norwich and Sunderland. I was at the Villa game – lucky me. Because I’d been at the season’s opener this change in my relationship with the Club only really hit me for the first time as the Tottenham game approached.

I started thinking about my unbroken run against the old enemy. I checked the facts and figures and discovered we’d won 24 of the 43 games, drawn 11 and lost eight. I looked a little closer at those eight defeats and took some pleasure from the fact that half of them came in my first seven years (although clearly pleasure had not been in abundance at the time) meaning only four defeats in the next 36 games.

But now, as the next instalment dawned, I was not at the stadium, I was at home, no longer part of the event, and preparing to ‘see’ the game through the disembodied voices of BBC Radio 5 Live. I lived through that game on the edge of my seat – or pacing up and down - painting pictures of the stadium in my mind and kicking imaginary balls when Tottenham threatened; in radio-land every half-hit, wayward shot sounds like an Exocet missile heading unerringly into the top corner of the net! But they didn’t score, and, as the game wore on, despite their late threat, I actually began to feel calm again, a sense that we would ‘do it’ settled over me. And we did. Then the realisation; something that had once seemed unthinkable had just happened. Life – of the Arsenal kind - had gone on without me.

So now I must learn to come to terms with living on the outside looking in. The dates of forthcoming fixtures are etched on my brain, but even so I look at the list again knowing full well what I will find. My eyes rest on Saturday 19 October at 3.00pm; never before has Arsenal v Norwich seemed so appealing.

Ian Castle is the author of Arsenal: The Agony & The Ecstasy, a fan’s perspective on almost 50 years of supporting the Club. It is available both as a paperback and eBook from Amazon.co.uk and other online retailers.


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  1. Rocky RIP

    Sep 30, 2013, 23:12 #39981

    'Its called not pissing on the ones who looked after you on the way up as you might need them when youre on the way down'. - very well put, sir. JCLs - last in, first out. That's what makes it painful for us to handle. Some of us were around when football wasn't fashionable, standing on crumbling and sparsely populated terraces, often in the rain. (No sympathy expected as we loved it.) Meanwhile the very same people who ended up with tickets to Paris 06 were having nothing to do with football. They openly disliked it. Yet fast forward through Gazza's tears, Nick Hornby, the Sky revolution, the start of the premier league (or the invention of footie as they believe it to be, history begins in 1992 for many) and these people are suddenly involved and calling the shots. Many started supporting Arsenal in their mid twenties. They are perfectly entitled to do this, nobody owns the rights to be a fan, but what you get is people who don't have Arsenal in their hearts to the same extent. They tend not to live and breath Arsenal. They've got no desire to sing at football. They prefer the comfy seat experience. Once you've had the heart break as a kid who can't understand why you've lost, it's ingrained for life. Whereas the JCLs can shrug off a defeat with a blaze 'oh well'. They are killing the atmosphere, but they don't even care.

  2. BADARSE

    Sep 30, 2013, 15:22 #39948

    No problems Ron.

  3. Ron

    Sep 30, 2013, 15:00 #39947

    BADARSE - Fair comment my freind. Apologies if my response to you sounded a little barbed/hostile. It wasnt meant, but it reads that way doesnt it.

  4. BADARSE

    Sep 30, 2013, 14:26 #39945

    Ron, let's get one thing straight. I am not advocating doing nothing, or abdicating responsibility in any fashion. I am perplexed that my synopsis has been glaringly misunderstood. I am very familiar with those who have despoiled life in every way, the tyrants and petty despots, in fact my list is probably longer than your list. I am an observer and perhaps see trends or oncoming traffic before a number of others, evaluate, and advise accordingly. Wherever and whenever there is an injustice it is right to stand against them. I live for the day SKY and companies like them, collapse, and I know they don't figure on your Xmas card list either. Some battles can be won, other times you need to be more circumspect.However, if people insist on doing a 'King Canute', I cannot stop them.

  5. Ron

    Sep 30, 2013, 12:40 #39927

    BADARSE - Youre right of course, but footballs bubble will bust soon enough ad the true fans, those who love the game and not just want to be seen labelling themselves as an Arse fan or Villa fan etc etc will soon lose interest and take their money elsewhere. Clubs shd be looking to avoid the balance between the have nots and the have s more than they do rather than just taking the cash from them most able to pay. Its called not pissing on the ones who looked after you on the way up as you might need them when youre on the way down.To be honest mate, if everyone just accepted how it is as you seem to do, the World would have always been and indeed still be ran ran by your Mugabe or Idi Amin, Charles 1st and Pol pot types. Your resumes soundfs like Michale Douglas piffle in Wall Street - 'Greed is good'! Well, it is for those who benefit in the short term, but it bites you on the arse in the end. Check out the Russian Royals, The French Royals at al pre rev days. Roll on the days of the SKY TV withdrawal and all the other sh--e TV companies who are pillaging football.

  6. BADARSE

    Sep 30, 2013, 12:38 #39926

    Green Hut, I know you are right on that point.

  7. Green Hut

    Sep 30, 2013, 11:00 #39913

    BADARSE- I would stand alongside anyone prepared to sing, sing together in praise of the AFC. However when the time came to dish out deserved criticism, I fear we would quickly fall out.

  8. BADARSE

    Sep 30, 2013, 9:41 #39898

    @Green Hut, I think my post missed. I would never advocate doing nothing and just bemoaning society. Sometimes when society heads in a certain direction it's akin to trying to stop a juggernaut. You can obviously step out in front of it and get squashed, if it's your desire. More wisely is to pick your battles. Never bend a knee though, and had I been with you in Paris I would have stood beside you singing my heart out. My North Bank reared voice is so bad though I've been told it's toneless even when I text song lyrics, listen,,, 'Good old Arsenal, we're proud to say that name...', what do you reckon buddy, would you have me alongside? Together trying to change the world, or dying in the attempt?

  9. Green Hut

    Sep 30, 2013, 9:09 #39895

    BADARSE- I will always bleat if Arsenal players aren't getting the vocal support they deserve. I still give it to them every other week even though I want the manager gone. And we all have a choice, either attempt to make things better as I and a few others did in Paris, or shrug our shoulders and bemoan society.

  10. BADARSE

    Sep 30, 2013, 5:58 #39893

    Hi Green Hut. I was in Paris '95, sadly not '06, Results were the same though. Read your last post, and I wonder if you see the bigger picture. It isn't a unique plaintive cry, is it? The JLC's, (how I dislike even typing these denigrating acronyms), littering up the place! Call them what you will, 'day trippers', 'corporate clowns'; that isn't important, it's what they do, in taking a supposedly more justifiable fans place, in the arena. It happens everywhere chum. theatre tickets, concerts, footie games, and beyond, housing, medicine, you name it. Money buys you, and always has done, a place at the top table. I mean, who are Manchester City, and for that, who are Chelsea? Medium strata clubs with a Spartan club history, catapulted into the big time. They didn't win the lottery, though it must seem it to their fans, it was money! In a capitalistic, free market, global 'shop', anything is available if you have the dosh. I am not suggesting that you are guilty of this, it isn't even a criticism, more an observation, but I hear bleating of a similar sort endlessly, and have done for years. I dare say on my deathbed someone will be griping and asking the question, 'How does he get to lie down, my feet are killing me.' The point I am making is this, in an ever expanding population, with access to money outstripping the intelligence or intellect of individuals, you will find a cause for complaint. Life ain't fair! Thing is, I am inherently opposed to this phenomenon, but wear it gracefully, as well as I might. Yet I have friends, family, happily buying into the scheme in their own ways, and bemoaning the fact when it doesn't suit. Ask yourself, does SK have more of a right to be in charge at AFC? Answer is yes, he is richer than us. There is no moral question to be answered. So it follows, did those people have more right to be in Paris than me? Yup! They had more lolly. As unpalatable as it sounds, that is the fact. These dynamics count, today more than ever. Everyone has 'wised up' to the idea of making the bottom line bigger. As distasteful as you find it, I would encourage you to get used to it. It will get worse. Population growing, more 'eye candy-style' advertising and selling, more enticement. If there are two sides my friend, you and I are on the losing one.

  11. Green Hut

    Sep 29, 2013, 22:06 #39888

    Ron/Rocky RIP- Spot on, the atmosphere the night before and day of the game in Paris 06 was fantastic, especially around Gare du Nord, thousands of old school Arsenal without tickets just there for the craic. Didn't see many of them in the ground though, just a bunch of mute muppets admiring their lovely free t-shirts. There was a group in the first few rows directly behind the goal who tried to get things going but think there were about 3 songs in the 90 minutes that got the whole end singing.

  12. JM - LONDON

    Sep 29, 2013, 21:44 #39887

    A touch of the 'Fever Pitch' lesson here. A really, really nice piece. I look forward to reading the book. Cheers - JM

  13. BADARSE

    Sep 29, 2013, 20:15 #39880

    Rocky RIP, we've touched on it before, and yes Copenhagen, 'Parken', was something special, atmosphere -wise, though not wishing to out trump you, Highbury, April 1970, 2nd leg European Fairs Cup Final, was the ultimate club/ground experience. Listen, you can still hear the phantom echoes drifting over the ghost of the North Bank.

  14. Rocky RIP

    Sep 29, 2013, 15:39 #39861

    @Ron - I'm sure you are right. I saw plenty there without tickets who were what I'd call proper Arsenal (not in the Danny Dyer sense of the word pwoper.) They looked pained not to be going to the game, but I'm sure those 'on the outside' made more noise than most of those inside. I spoke to one JCL Arsenal 'fan' that Summer who'd paid a ludicrous amount to go (because he could.) He not only said 'oh, you went too?' but also 'the atmosphere was incredible.' Er, no, it wasn't. Try Copenhagen '94 for a genuinely incredible atmosphere, but I know he didn't follow us then. Anyway, sorry, I've side-tracked Ian's touching article.

  15. Ron

    Sep 29, 2013, 15:19 #39860

    Rocky - The atmosphere in the bars was far, far better than in that stadium i'm sure of it (Paris 06). I had no ticket and went with 6 others inc only 1 of our merry band who did. He sold it for £780.00 about a couple of hours pregame (the prices were still rising) just to stay with us. Great 2 days despite the result.

  16. Rocky RIP

    Sep 29, 2013, 14:19 #39855

    Very good article Ian. I can relate to everything you say. What upsets me most is when I go to home games and look around at some of the people with tickets - people who don't seem overly bothered, passionate or knowledgable of our history. People who offer nothing positive to the atmosphere and actually block those who want to back the team by singing from doing so. (I've been told to 'pipe down' when I started a song.) Then I think of those now 'on the outside'. No more exemplified than the CL final in 2006. People who live and breath Arsenal locked outside of the game they dreamed of all their lives at the expense of plastic fans who were there simply because they could afford them on ebay, outbidding genuine fans, or some corporate freebie. (Ofcoure that's not all of us who were there.) We were 15 minutes from winning the Champions League and I was surrounded by people who looked faintly indifferent - incredible! I only mention all this because it ties in with the key point of: 'the club does not particularly value the ordinary long-term fan anymore'. Undying love for and loyalty to Arsenal isn't rewarded. They only seem interested in going after those who will pay the most money to fund the business model and SK's investment.

  17. BADARSE

    Sep 29, 2013, 11:27 #39844

    What a proud and remarkable boast Brian Dawes, that must be part of the reason why I've heard whispers that you are the next mural going up on the core at the Grove. I do remember at Highbury in early 1963. We lost 2-3, and the big build up in the press before the game had been a showdown between Bobby Smith and our own Joe Baker, the two centre forwards. I think each scored, but Joe was different class- a footballer not a battering ram.

  18. Brian Dawes

    Sep 29, 2013, 10:31 #39838

    No big deal I know...but I've actually not missed an Arsenal home game against the Totts since about 1962. I've been stood on the North Bank, sat in the old West and East stands and lately in theEast lower at our new gaff. The tension has never lessened and my ability to eat before games not improved in all that time. It's still THE biggest game for any North London lad such as myself.

  19. BADARSE

    Sep 28, 2013, 15:07 #39820

    John Gooner, a lovely post, you are valued too.

  20. Terry

    Sep 28, 2013, 12:18 #39818

    I once sent a letter to George Graham and got a reply straight away. I used to love following Arsenal abroad having a good row with the locals, but now I've been priced out. Nowadays I just watch the game down the pub and have to take out my frustration on any spud or garnet who wanders into the place.

  21. gooner since '97

    Sep 28, 2013, 11:40 #39817

    Touching piece Ian. The game has clearly changed alot over the many years you been a gooner and am not sure gooners like me would exist-in africa,or anywhere not in europe- if it wasnt for these changes. I love arsenal for reasons i cant explain and hate tottenham like i hate being broke. All i know is every weekend i have to watch the arsenal take the pitch,rain or shine...not many can afford the prices of cable tv to last a whole season these parts so its a whole different story how we get to watch... Stories i'l tell my son when he's old enough to care anything football. For now arsenal is everything,win,draw or lose it kinda affects how i feel the following week...and i know too that one day i will make that hajj to the hallowed grounds that is the emirates(should have been highbury)-if only jus once before am gone from this world. So you see guys,its a whole different standing far outside looking in. Dont take it for granted. Coyg

  22. gooner since we got berkamp

    Sep 28, 2013, 11:23 #39813

    Touching piece Ian. The game has clearly changed alot and am not sure gooners like me would exist-in africa,or anywhere not in europe- if it wasnt for these changes. I love arsenal for reasons i cant explain and hate tottenham like i hate being broke. All i know is every weekend i have to watch the arsenal take the pitch,rain or shine...not many can afford the prices of cable tv to last a whole season these parts so its a whole different story how we get to watch... Stories i'l tell my son when he's old enough to care anything football. For now arsenal is everything,win,draw or lose it kinda affects how i feel the following week...and i know too that one day i will make that hajj to the hallowed grounds that is the emirates(should have been highbury)-if only jus once before am gone from this world. So you see guys,its a whole different standing far outside looking in. Dont take it for granted. Coyg

  23. gooner since '97

    Sep 28, 2013, 10:57 #39811

    Touching piece Ian. The game has clearly changed alot and am not sure gooners like me,deep down in africa would exist if it wasnt for these changes,would exist. I love arsenal for reason i cant even explain. All i know is every weekend i have to watch the arsenal take the pitch,rain or shine...not many can afford the prices of cable tv so its a whole story how we get to watch. Stories i'l tell my son when he's old enough to care bout anything football. For me arsenal is everything,win,draw or lose it kinda affects how i feel the following week...but...well,too many words...16years and counting,arsenal till i die!!!

  24. John Gooner

    Sep 28, 2013, 4:30 #39809

    When I was younger a neighbour of mine (with learning difficulties) wrote to AFC to tell them about the things I had done to help him when his mother and father sadly passed away within months of each other. I received a letter of thanks from the chairman and manager with signed pictures from members of the squad and a free stadium tour. Arsenal can get back to you when they want. It's just a shame they don't value your excellent support as much as the people on here do. Thanks for the article.

  25. Westlower

    Sep 27, 2013, 21:10 #39804

    Ian, I've been watching Arsenal on a regular basis since 1961. My wife and I surrendered our season tickets when Highbury closed as it coincided with my retirement. Living in Cambs meant every home game for us involved a 150 mile round trip. It became routine to drive to Blackstock Road, park at the school, eat a quick meal in Small & Beautiful before the short walk to Highbury. God knows how much money we spent over the years but loved every moment and wouldn't change a thing. The craziest thing we ever done was to cut short a visit to Vienna, then drive from Heathrow to Blackstock Road, watch the game then drive home to Cambs. I guess it's just another form of addiction as we still are silver members and target Saturday afternoon games!

  26. Reg

    Sep 27, 2013, 19:07 #39802

    @ PPP. If the staff are dealing with these matters then they don't care either! Once sent a letter to Terry Neill asking why he persisted with David Price and got a reply outlining his thoughts. Things certainly have changed and it's horribly backwards.

  27. ppp

    Sep 27, 2013, 18:11 #39800

    Liked the article and I would like to read your book - but i don't see how you can blame Wenger, Crazy Ivan and Co for not getting back to you. They probably recieve hundreds of letters a week and have them all dealt with by staff. I admit the sheers corporate scope of Arsenal can feel mighty frustrating sometimes but I doubt they purposely ignored you. If you met them personally and they had the time I'm sure they would be interested in your story.

  28. BADARSE

    Sep 27, 2013, 17:00 #39799

    Thanks Ian. A nice, and somewhat touching tale. Life just gets in the way, doesn't it? Travel is a tedious affair, and costly, overpriced food en route, sky-high admission costs, the feeling of being pushed around, and taken for granted. The disruption of any cohesive and stable existence due to TV's demands to change KO times, and days, all take their toll. You are well out of it-but your not! You have just changed the rules of engagement, and for the better. Ron is testimony to that, but it takes time to adjust. Glad you are still with us. Well done Gooner, a nice article.

  29. maguiresbridge gooner

    Sep 27, 2013, 15:25 #39797

    Nice piece Ian and sad, but there's a lot like you for all sorts of reasons from financial to disillusionment, but one things the same the club don't give a toss, we're only customers to them. If your letter had indicated that you'd wanted to buy a box for the season you'd have had a reply within the hour and treated like a lord. That's the way the club is now with only those willing to spend plenty of money getting their attention right up until the credit card or cheque clears. You can be sure Arsenal life will go on alright without yourself and all other fans who haven't renewed and don't/can't go any more for whatever reason, just the same way Arsenal life will go on without the current regime when they eventually depart.

  30. Spaced

    Sep 27, 2013, 15:21 #39796

    Excellent article Ian. I do however slightly disagree with your views. I think that football (and to some extent society) as a whole has changed and that your reasons for giving up the season ticket are not exclusively aimed at Arsenal. They could be valid for any club. Arsenal have been through far worse periods than the current one, so it appears to me that you have decided to give up on the modern football experience, rather than Arsenal, per se. Fair enough, you've clearly put in a good innings, but you've now been replaced by the next generation...

  31. CanadaGooner

    Sep 27, 2013, 14:05 #39794

    Ian - times have changed, and with it, club management as well. Nobody at Arsenal care about old fans walking away, as long as they're selling Arsenal Jerseys in China. With the rise of TV coverage via cable TV etc., the global market dwarfs the domestic market (casing point: world cup to be held in qatar and in winter?! ha ha ha - never mind the fact that it's always been something the world associates with summer and the fanfare that goes along with it). I dont think I agree with your logic, but we might as well have a different article to read, before the usual reactionary post-match stuff that we all gear up for. So, kudos to you for posting this article.

  32. Ron

    Sep 27, 2013, 13:52 #39793

    Good stuff Ian. Ive trodden a similar path. In the late 60s and early to late 70s i had a sterling service from touts and raraely felt ripped off. Season tickets held and shared thereafter and now hiring a Silver from an freind whos lived abroad for 7 years. Choosing your games on your terms is liberating. You get control. Yes, you miss some games you fancied, but for me, ive become more of a 'football fan' than Arsenal fan, though theyre my only Club of course.Its great and to be free of the shackles of 'i dont fancy it but feel obliged to go' syndrome is good. The situation now suits my dissafection with football generally and still allows me to indulge from time to time. Im lucky as i know a good few who can get tickets for most away games which i prefer anyway these days. I found that once the ST was surrendered, it wasnt long before i valued the saving and to be honest, saying sod Stoke, Norwich, Palace, Toon, Sunderland et al is a good feeling as they were games that i was never enamoured with on freezing Winter days/nights. You might also be influenced by the age thing. I was more or less a regular since the late 60s too and it gets a bit old hat as the game changes and the shabby side of the game today takes a grip on perceptions of it.

  33. Der Projekt ist Kaput

    Sep 27, 2013, 12:56 #39791

    An excellent piece, Ian. Just goes to show how from being valued supporters and a recognition that we were the life blood to the club, we are now simply regarded as consumer-units to be fleeced as much as possible and totally ignored. THANK YOU for your great support.